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It’s OK to Feel Guilty

I don’t imagine anybody likes to feel guilty.  Owning up to our shortcomings is painful.  That’s why we get defensive when criticized, or blame others when we’re accused.  I can’t sleep for days when I know I’ve hurt someone.  I cry.  Taking responsibility for our faults is not only emotionally difficult,…

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8 Simple (Biker) Rules for Leading Change

I’m a biker.  Not the scary, outlaw kind … but the middle-aged, empty nest, “always wanted to ride fast and feel the wind” kind.  I learned to ride by taking a class at the community college one weekend in June 2009 (yes, clearly not the “I’m cool” kind).  When the…

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